The Epitome of Success

KL was somehow in a good weather today. Smoky n hazy Sunday mornin'. Heheh. I watched The Pursuit of "Happy"ness again last night. Actually for the 5th time, I guess. Well guys, I keep on watching this movie over and over again because it was so damn good for me. This is my favourite part of the entire movie:

"PROTECT YOUR DREAMS"



It's all about dreams and made me reflect on my own. I love how they potrayed Chris Gardner's character. He was fully loaded with the bullet of success, which he used wisely to get through the hell and back in the movie. The ending part was awesome when Chris finally realized that all of his heartache and endless effort was worth it in the end.

"THE SILENT HAPPINESS"



The thing is, most of the people think that money can buy anything including happiness(like Chris Gardner's wife). Some might object, as some will agree due the fact that money is the most powerful thing in this entire world. As for me, this is where I'll draw the line. I am 120% positively believe that both the money and happiness is equally important. None was superior over another, because my formula is simple;

(Money + Happiness) X (Happiness + Money)= FREEDOM

From my humble opinion, nobody could achieve their FREEDOM if they didn't have both money and happiness. The reality is we must find MONEY, by doing whatever jobs or businesses that we're HAPPY to do and vice versa. My view is different because I personally think that HAPPINESS meanings may vary to each person alive. Hence, happiness is really subjective because it's not always about money.

Some might think that HAPPINESS means by having/buying everything he desired that money can buy. Some other might define his HAPPINESS by being a PHILANTHROPIST : HELPING OTHERS for good causes, and InsyaAllah I'm going to be one of them soon. Amiiin.

"THE HARDSHIPS"




DEFINE YOUR HAPPINESS.






Kenangan Hari Raya Aku

Alhamdulillah.

Syukur ke hadrat Allah SWT.

Aku masih gik bernafas untuk menemui Syawal tahun tok. Walaupun sikpat balit raya taun tok, aku tetap bersyukur. At least, hikmahnya = pat juak aku mencerik raya di semenanjung tok kdak ney. Hahaha. Ada lah juak member-member opis ajak balit raya ke kampung sidak juak, tapi aku sendirik gik lom polah keputusan. Tangga lok lah. Heheh. Bukannya aku tok sik pernah beraya di perantauan nak. Memang pernah pun. Masih aku ingat gik muka-muka member yang sama-sama beraya di kampus ngan aku lok. Salah satu koleksi kenangan lawak aku sebenarnya. Cuma nektok,aku sekda sapa-sapa yang aku benar-benar kenal di kotaraya KL k beraya sama. Sik dapat aku mok polah menda-menda lawak di sitok. Hahaha. Mimpi.

Ahmad Rafizi, budak Labuan. Suhaily, budak Kudat. Mohd Zain, budak Semporna..Yalah antara member-member aku yang pernah menyambut Hari Raya Aidilfitri bersama aku dolok. Aku sik dapat lupak sidak tok. Tauk sik pahal? Sebab kmk org bersama-sama melakar sejarah di awal pagi Hari Raya taun 2005 lok.

Semangat nak beraya tek nak, semua bangun awal pagi ya. Kol 530 dah bangun dah. Masing-masing bergegas melakukan apa yang penting. Ada yang isap rokok lah, iron baju melayu lah, brush songkok lah, and ada juak yang dah ngetest sabok time ya. Hahahaha. Nang semangat.

Tepat jam 7 pagi, sayup-sayup mek org dengar bunyi org bertakbir rah suro kampus. Kakya semua nangga dari penjan bilit, and bok mek org tauk, duhal rami juak miak kampus time ya yang sik balit raya kdak mek org. So, dipendekkan cerita tek, semua dah kemas berbaju melayu, bersampin pa indah. Tapi, sigek jak belom. Mek org lapar. Mencarik juadah pertama di hari raya....Dah sik dapat nak sabar gik dah.

Memandangkan sekda sorang pun yang ada stock barang makan di pagi Syawal yang hening ya, maka mek org pun carik idea apa mok di makan before turun semayang raya. Last-last, si Ahmad Rafizi yg berwajah seperti Ahmad Dhani itu memberikan cadangan. Lam rami-rami member aku, nyatok lah Raja Makan. Apa-apa jak yang melibatkan makanan, mesti nya tauk pun.

" Aku ada cadangan bernas tok... Apa kata kalau aku pergi cafetaria lok.. ney tauk rah sia ada makanan k kita breakfast tok... Aku dah lapar tok. Dalam notis kat depan cafe ya, nya padah makanan hari raya tok memang special bah!!" ujarnya.

So, apalah lagik mek org tek. Bila mendengar si Ahmad ( Raja Makan) ya dah beriya-iya jak nak pegi carik makanan, teruslah setuju sebulat suara. Kakya Ahmad tek terus jak la pegi ke Cafe dengan konfidennya. Lengkap berbaju melayu, bersampin gik ya!

Aku tek dah start imagine brg makan nak nyaman-nyaman. Kari manok kah, satay dagin kah. Suhaily best gik, dah sik sabar-sabar gik nunggu. Pa nya tek mengidam Rendang Ayam sejak bulan posa ya tek. Semua mek org berkumpul lam bilit Ahmad, nunggu nya balit.

DAN...

Lebih kurang 10minit lekak ya, Ahmad pun balit dari cafe. Dapat mek org dengar bunyi tapak kaki nya nait tangga menuju ke bilit. Semua menanti bagaikan singa lapar. Semua diam seribu bahasa. Hanya menunggu khabar gembira. Dan Ahmad pun masuk lam bilit.............


MBAK 4 IGEK PISANG EMAS AJAK, DENGAN MUKA SEDIH DAN TERSIPU-SIPU. Hahahahahaha..



Dan kesemua mek org yang dah bernapsu makan kdak apa jak tek, alu tetak berami-rami sebab sikpat nak padah apa-apa gik memandangkan peristiwa ya terlalu lawak...hahahaha So, mek org pun makan jak lah PISANG di pagi Syawal nan mulia itu..Ahmad tek bok tauk yang juadah Aidilfitri untuk student akan di hantar oleh caterer after semayang raya lak, so sekda apa gik yang ada di cafe ya melainkan pisang. Hahahahaha yalah ceritanya tek. Kakya bok mek org pegi semayang sunat aidilfitri dengan senyuman yang tak lekang di bibir. Sabar........


So, moral of the story :

JANGAN GAGO HAL MAKAN DI AWAL PAGI RAYA, PEGI SEMAYANG RAYA DOLOK!

How to earn 10K monthly before the age of 30?

Salam Ramadhan guys. This post is ONLY for those who really want to improve their financial situation. Anybody wanna earn up to RM10,000 monthly b4 the age of 30? Please raise your eyebrow. Heheh.

From my humble opinion,Malaysian have 3 options to earn big bucks:

Option No.1 = Engage in some ILLEGAL BUSINESS ACTIVITIES
(but not to the extent of selling drugs okay!!)

Option No.2 = Take a decent and legal path of LEGITIMATE BUSINESS that is lucrative.

Option No.3 = Find a job or employment with a multinational/oversea based company that offers salary payment in US Dollars/other currencies.

Speaking of career as an employee, in order for you to earn RM10K, at the age 30 or below, is something unattainable unless you are holding the positions of General Manager (GM) or Senior Manager(SM) in a multinational company. Why? Okay, let say if you start off as a young executive at the age of 22, and supposing it takes 2-3 years for you to become Supervisor/Senior Executive (24-25 years old), and another 4-5 years for you to become Manager(29-30). Normally,junior managers were paid around RM7K-8K monthly, and they need to wait for 3-5 years more to be Senior/General Manager!! So, finally the dream to earn RM10K monthly will only come true by the age of 33-35. Am I right?? Please correct me if I'm wrong about this. Can you name some of this MULTI-NATIONAL COMPANIES for me? Careers with RM10K earning examples:

  • Oil & Gas Geologist/Exec( most of my friends earn RM10K b4 30 by working with SH*LL)
  • Pilot ( possible! I got a friend working as pilot (24 years old) already paid RM8K)
  • CEO / Managing Director ( a bit impossible..unless you operate your own business..)
  • Architect ( possible!)
  • Football Player ( Europe only)
  • Rocket Scientist??
  • Minister ?? ( below the age of 30???? got kah??)
  • F1 Driver
  • Plastic Surgeon ( selalunya mesti doktor2 tua yang kaya kan??)

So, we got 2 options left. Obviously, orang Malaysia tok memang suka amik short-cut utk cepat kaya. That's what actually happened to our greedy Malaysians who invested into internet scams before. They want to get rich as quick as possible, and as easy as it can be. They only saw the visible risk and after they calculated it, they just put all the eggs in one basket. Instead of gaining, they already lose it all. People know that this sort of business is illegal in Malaysia, but nobody could stop you from gaining easy-money from it. If you can bear the risk yourself, and you don't care neither about your family's future nor your own reputation, so you can go for Option 1. At the end of the day, you'll realise that you've made a big mistake, but it's already too late. We'll see you on TV!! Astalavista baby!!
Some of bad assss business examples:

  • Import/Export China made = fake items (illegal beb..tp best!)
  • Football bookie = (mengatur perlawanan bola sepak..)
  • Ah Long Pvt. Ltd !! ( lending and kill??)
  • Illegal investment company ( SCAM)
  • Pirated DVD/VCD sellers ( but I like to buy from them...my bad...)
  • Con-man??

Remember, we're discussing about EARNING RM10,000 MONTHLY BEFORE THE AGE OF 30. As for me, I'll definitely go for the 2nd option. Build my own business. A legitimate, profitable, and recognized one. It may be hard to believe that 9/10 of brick and mortar business ventures failed to survive the first 3 years of its operation. That's reality. But heyy... the door of REZEKI never close!!


Network marketing or some of you may call it MLM, is one of the fastest ways to make such amount of money in a month or even more than RM10K. Yeah, some of you may find that MLM is not your cup of tea. Reason being, you guys got some ugly experiences with some disgusting MLM companies and their members. I was once a network marketer before, and I experienced so many things while doing it. Sadly, there's a case whereby a bad apple spoils the whole branch, which leads me to quit for good. However, I'm not discounting the fact that there are some gems in the midst of the ashes. If you guys can do better in MLMs, so go for it. If you're more into finance, then join me. Below is a list of common but profitable business idea that you can work on to get your RM10K or more:

  • Real Estate Rental/Purchase
  • Tuition Centre
  • Clothes Retailing/Designing
  • Rubber/ Latex Production
  • Oil & Gas Exploring
  • Telecommunication = TM/Celcom/Digi/Maxis/Astro
  • Import/Export
  • Agriculture /Farming
  • Restaurant
  • Electrical Appliances

p/s: Imagine if you only being paid USD 3000 monthly, by working with a FOREIGN company? How much you will earn in Ringgit Malaysia???

Tagged....lagik...

Makluman: Si lyana lah yg mengetaggedkan aku tok....

1. Apakah benda yang paling penting dalam hidup kamu?
-Question tok nanyak BENDA... so, aku asa benda yg paling penting ialah:

Berus gigi
Seluar dalam/Boxer
Jam
Henpon
Pengetep kuku
pa gik? banyak bah... lemah ku mok jawab pjg2...


2. Apakah benda terakhir yang kamu beli dgn duit sendiri?
- ticket LRT....

3. Di manakah tempat impian perkahwinan kamu?
- ney ku tauk eh..sikpat ekot kata aku sorg..gikpun mls ku nak ngegeh2 lok berangan..

4. Berapa lama anda rasa hubungan anda berkekalan?
- Yah, selagik Allah SWT "RASA" kmk duak tok akan kekal la..ney pat kita yg nak RASA2..Apa punya soklan daaa....

5. Adakah anda di lamun cinta?
- Ya.

6. Di manakah restoran terakhir kamu makan malam?
- Davis Corner, Bangsar

7. Namakan buku terakhir yang kamu beli?
- Cashflow Quadrant, Robert T. Kiyosaki

8. Apakah nama penuh kamu?
- Check I/C ku nun gak...

9. Kamu lebih senang dgn mak atau ayah?
- Mak.

10. Namakan seseorang yang kamu ingin jumpa utk pertama kalinya dlm hidup anda?
- Liv Tyler

11. Christina atau Britney?
- Next question....

12. Adakah kamu mencuci pakaian sendiri?
- Aok.

13. Tempat yang paling seronok kamu mahu pergi?
- Zurich, Switzerland & Barcelona, Spain.

14. Pelukan atau ciuman?
- Both.

15. Butirkan 5 perkara tentang org yang tag kamu?

Jadi geng since 2006
Gerek ngan senior aku, nama Razri
Suka kaler merah
Suka begamba
Kuat makan?? Haha

16. 8 perkara yang amat saya gilai:

Zulfa.
Buku.
Bisnes.
Mazda RX8
Kari ayam.
Gitar.
Lagu2 rock & jazz.
Motivasi.


17. 8 perkataan yang sering diucapkan:


Nice! Nice!
Baguslah!
Allright
Bah..
Nang
Kenak?
Genius eh..
Yeap!


18. Lapan buah buku yang terakhir dibaca?

Be your own boss - David Mc Mullan
Building your own business - John Hawkins
You're Hired! - Bill Rancic
Great by 24 - John Lee
The Innocent Man - John Grisham
Law of Attraction -Michael Losier
Think Big and Kick Ass - Donald Trump/Bill Zanker
Cashflow Quadrant - Robert T. Kiyosaki


19. 8 perkara yang saya pelajari tahun lalu:
- Malas dah ku nak nulis koh... banyak gilak bah...

20. Mari mengetag 8 org lain?
- Sorry.. malas ku nak tag org... Sesiapa yg ada masa terluang atau mempunyai insomnia spt aku, silakan lah mengetag diri sendiri ya. Heheheh

Feast for your eyes.

Didn't know what to do today. Intended to nap for 1 hour, but woke up after 4 hours. Tebik dah posa ku ritok. Mala tido jak. But as I woke up, something rushed out of my head.... Blingggggg!!! I googled for some " mouth-watering" food pictures to perform an IMAN TEST on myself. HikHikHikHik.. Only God knows how tempting it is, just to see at those pictures ( during Ramadhan)! So, irresistible! (Sengaja ngetest Iman..Nangga gambar ajak pun dah terlior.... Masya Allah!)


Guys, feast your eyes on the pictures!
Bon Appetit!



Yummy....Cheese cake....



Sup Tulang yang sedap....



Aneka jenis Tart... faveret aku juak!!




Creamy...... Salad yang memukau.




Satay Ayam + Nasik Himpit + Kelupis = Sangat nyaman... hahaha



Rojak Tambi/ Rojak Mamak / Pasemboq(penang)


Well, the holy days of Ramadhan is welcomed with reverence and respect. It's the time for cleansing the soul, or "chlorox-ing" / "dynamo-ing" it (take whichever you prefer), leaving temptations and vice behind, and to be charitable and penitent.. However, this last picture is the real kiss of death to me. You couldn't find it anywhere else, except in Sarawak. It reminds me of how hopeless am I, being far away from my hometown and missing so many beautiful things there. But I'm battenin' down the hatches now, in order to get back home as soon as possible. Remember the famous line that P.Ramlee, Sudin and Ajis said in Pendekar Bujang Lapok?



" COBAaaaaaaaaaaaan..........."


My favourite Sarawak's Linut @ Gam!
The Most Irresistible, The Most hard-to-find in KL




p/s: It's 5:38pm now.. still got 1 hour and 17 minutes to go.. I'm waitin' ....tick... tock...




Tagged....

Makluman: Cindy yang mengeTAGGEDkan aku....

1) What were you doing 5 years ago?


- Masih terhoyong-hayang di Zaman Gelap.
- Menjadi student di Uitm
- Bisnes Satay di Taman Bulatan
- Gila jamming time ya...sangat active ngan music
- Menjadi penjahat.

2)What were the 5 things on your to do list today?

- Kirum duit ngan my sis
- Minum aek banyak2. (the BATU KARANG attacked me again...)
- Looking for sungkey meal.
- Adapt to the changes of being alone soon.
- Selesaikan apa yang patut.

3)What are 5 snacks that you enjoy?

- Biskut Tat Nenas ngan Makmor Mak!
- Kueh Batik Zulfa
- Biskut Milo
- Nata de Coco
- Cadbury's Break

4)What are 5 jobs that you've had?

- Waiter/Banquet(rah hotel gaok!Geng supervisor bernama Mr.Bara!)
- Despatch Boy (temu Bos plg cokot lam dunia..50sen pun berkira!)
- Data Entry Assistant (keja ngan Govt yang paling relax...)
- Sessionist ( 3 kali ngan RTM & 8 kali majlis urang kawen..kehkeh)
- Sales / Marketing( Time ku join direct selling & insurance lok..)

5)5 people I want to tag:

- Zulfa
- Cindy
- Aen
- Izan
- Hanim

The Reason

I can't stop thinking. I do a lot of thinking nowadays. Even sometimes I couldn't sleep at night because a lot of ideas keep coming out and I have to write it inside my idea book. Well, it's all about me being passionate of setting up my own business. I'm still on the learning platform, waiting patiently to fly higher than ever. Period.

Just imagine of owning your own business. Making your own personal mark in the world. Being in total control of your life. Doing what you want, whenever you want it. Some of my close friends and relatives did questioned me a lot about my job,

" Asz,why did you choose this kind of job?"

" Asz, do you aware that your job didn't secure you with EPF schemes, and penchant/retirement allowances. Ever thought of joining the GOVERNMENT sector?"

" How much is your "salary" there?

Well, I'm not going to post my answer here. I'll talk about it in the next entry. They just didn't have the idea of what my career is all about. People with "different" mindsets usually prefer to be in their " COMFORT ZONE". I've been at that zone before and learned a harsh lesson, and that took me where I am now. Finally, I didn't afraid of my own shadow anymore. I was morphed to another person with dozens of visions and missions to achieve.

I'm not doing it for myself, but for everybody that I care for. I remember watching my dad going and coming back from work every day. Sometimes, we didn't meet for a day although living in the same house because of his daily routine! He went to office early in the morning, while I'm still on bed sleeping and when he came back home (usually by 8:30), I'm already hanging out with friends until midnight. Dad is such a workaholic guy and his employer liked him very much. My dad has been living in his "comfort zone" til he retired last year. Never got involved with any kind of business or other source of income at all, except some investment schemes. Here I must admit, there's absolutely No Harm of staying in your "COMFORT ZONE" forever.(sigh..) Except all of your fantasies towards a successful life won't be a reality because you don't want to come out, to the "HARDSHIP ZONE".( Unless you won a RM100 million lottery ticket!)

It's just me. I realized that my future lies in the dangerous world of Entrepreneurship. The Reason? I am a FREEDOM FIGHTER. I hate of being a stereotypically static person like I was
before. I need a CAREER that ALLOWS me to perpertually manage my own time according to my own schedule, my targeted income, and my future plans without any concerns of being SACKED!! No worries because it's only me, myself and my dreams!! I couldn't afford to be like my dad, working for others until his retirement days. Dad himself repeatedly told me, he got no FREEDOM as an employee. I know what dad means.

So right now, I'm pursuing the FREEDOM : of time,space,speech and money, which honestly I couldn't earn if I'm working for others. But many our Malay people jump into business because they got lured to the LUXURIOUS lifestyle, and the BIG BUCKS they could have made out of it, with only a few of 'em aware that 93% of new business ventures failed in Malaysia. That's just a wrong mindset at all. Business is not just about money and luxury. Ask our fellow Malaysian Chinese friends: they'll answer " It's the way of life! ", " It's culture!" and you'll find many more brilliant answers from them. That's why the Chinese managed to control over 2/3 of Malaysian economy. They are more far-sighted than us, the so called invincible and "berdaulat" Malays or "Me"-"Layu." We need to change this. We're not living in the pre-Merdeka days anymore. We are climbing up the stairs of technology advancement and modernisation era.

As for me, it involves a lot of business skills, patience, communications, networking, ideas, perseverance and financial literatures because some business might not generate any profits or turnover maybe for months or years. Just read the story of Ray Kroc, the entrepreneur who introduced the world with McDonald's franchise. He waited for 12 years, only to plough the FIRST profit from his business. His weapon of success is only patience. Could you wait that long to gain profit from your business? Or Could I ? Insya Allah, because I originally came from a poor, kampong family, and my childhood days taught me a lot about patience. I'm looking forward for my greatest endeavor. Pray for me.

It can be done, and it has been done. I've met multi-millionaire internet company owner, Dr.Irfan Khairi,and self-made millionaire Unit Trust Consultant, Mahadi Badrul Zaman at different occasions before. Stories about their TOUGH journey to lead a successful life has really inspired me. Dr. Irfan made his first RM1mil when he was 25 while Mahadi owns it at 23. Such a great success by such a young man is a fantastic inspiration for an ambitious youth like me.

I learned a lot from my "unofficial" mentor, Dr. Irfan Khairi

But I know, it's not that easy to beat up the challenges. Ever since I'm pursuing my career in this financial line, I've been cheated regularly and I've been treated badly by some clients. Sometimes ago, I was called a "stupid wannabe" consultant after I was backstabbed by a colleague. But the best of all, I was once honoured as the top performer in unit trust sales in Miri region, which urged the backstabbers cum office politicians to back off. Life is a rollercoaster after all.

As Abraham Lincoln once said, " Always bear in mind that your own resolution to succeed is more important than any other thing." I'd bear that in mind. "It's better to remain silent and be thought a fool than to speak out and remove all doubt."

So,personally for me: The reason of owning my own business is, FREEDOM.

What's yours? Care to share your opinions?


Or you prefer "freedom" like this ????

Paradigm Shift for Zulfa

Dear Readers,

Firstly, I apologize for my laziness to update my post rapidly as others do. Yes, I know. I know. It's already September. (Sighs..)

But there's a crucial date in this month, that I would never forget. Well, of course it's my girl's birthday. She turned 23 in a glimpse of an eye today ( 7/09/2008). Wish you all the best in life Zulfa. My prayers always be with you wherever you go and whatever you do. May Allah bless you.

To the 22 year old Zulfa,
"You're amazing. You've been so wonderful to me. Thanks for supporting my career. Thanks for being my true companion. Thanks for your fantastic cooking! Thanks for all the beautiful memories. "

And this one goes the 23 year old Zulfa,
"Lovely personality comes with a lovely smile. Senyum selalu bah!! And I hope you'll be happier than ever in this new stage of life. Remember, PARADIGM SHIFT. I'll monitor everything about your future plans, and if you need any kind of help, guidance or motivation to survive in this cruel world, you know I'll be there for you. There's a lot more to discover in this life!! "

So, here I am. Maybe NOBODY for others, but surely could be SOMEBODY for you.

p.s I Love You.